The decision is the drain, not the dinner.
Four of five participants named the choice step — scrolling apps, filtering, second-guessing ratings — as the longest and most draining part of the evening. Typical estimates cluster at 10–15 minutes; cooking or waiting for delivery felt shorter than getting to the first click.
Counter: 1 of 5 (P03, the parent) said deciding was quick; her time drain was executing the second backup meal while answering work messages.
Implication. Design for the 'first click in under 60 seconds' moment. Surface a two-or-three-item shortlist pinned to the current hour and energy level; do not present a catalogue.
"Definitely the scrolling and second-guessing part — going back and forth between apps or friends' suggestions, checking ratings to avoid a bad meal. It feels like wasted energy, especially when I'm already drained."— P01 · Beijing knowledge worker